Monday, May 18, 2009

I'm a little shocked.

During this struggle of TTC we all have our ups and downs. I know for myself it has been the kind word someone has said or that little boost you get from hearing someone say they got their BFP that would give me hope that one day I would get mine. It's those stories that kept me going. I always thought being positive was what we should do. I have shared my story with others in hopes that it would give them hope.

So is it insensitive to post excitement while others are not getting the results they wanted? Isn't the positive what we are all looking for, waiting to hear?

I thought the boards were there for either. It's called a support group and to me that means support for good news and bad news. We are all in this together and no one should ever feel that they shouldn't share good news.

1 comment:

  1. I didnt really say much on this subject because I am new to the board and didnt feel it was my place but I copletely agree with you. I am on a TTC board and we have been together for quite some time. We at one time had two seperate ones, TTC and then Grads but because everyone was so curious about what was going on with the others once they were pregnant, it ended up being just one big board. Like I said in my post, I think hearing of those miracles and also getting words of wisdom from those that have been there, thats important.

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